Showing posts with label Afterlife. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Afterlife. Show all posts

Saturday, April 11, 2020

Who am I?

Main points:
  1. Who is a human being? Who am I? This is a fundamental question that many people ponder. This post would present a perspective shared by Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, and my understanding of the concepts.
  2. Difference between a person and God, is similar to difference between a ripple and water. Ripple has its own existence which is an extension or projection of water. Within context of this analogy, assuming water is eternal, ripple is ephemeral while water is permanent.
  3. Second analogy describing relationship between a person and God, is that of a gold ornament and gold. Same material, gold, is used to fashion many different ornaments. Ornaments could be melted multiple times to make new ornaments, while the essential quality of underlying material, gold, remains the same.
  4. A ripple attached to its own form of an ephemeral ripple will be troubled by realizing that its existence is for a finite time. A ripple which identifies itself as part of water, will find rest even if it merges back in water.
  5. A person is separated from God by own previous actions. Union with God is the only option to provide a stable state to a person.
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Following verses from Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji present different perspectives to understand self. One important aspect while reading scripture is that the mind has to deal with multiple perspectives and analogies which sometimes are not always comprehensible or may appear contradictory. I find it is a good practice to read scripture with an open mind, take in the ideas without judging them immediately, and letting mind work on them. As time passes and mind gets a chance to think through the concepts, the ideas become clearer.
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Reference verses with commentary:
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ਤੋਹੀ ਮੋਹੀ ਮੋਹੀ ਤੋਹੀ ਅੰਤਰੁ ਕੈਸਾ ॥
ਕਨਕ ਕਟਿਕ ਜਲ ਤਰੰਗ ਜੈਸਾ ॥੧॥
ਜਉ ਪੈ ਹਮ ਨ ਪਾਪ ਕਰੰਤਾ ਅਹੇ ਅਨੰਤਾ ॥
ਪਤਿਤ ਪਾਵਨ ਨਾਮੁ ਕੈਸੇ ਹੁੰਤਾ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
ਤੁਮ੍ਹ੍ਹ ਜੁ ਨਾਇਕ ਆਛਹੁ ਅੰਤਰਜਾਮੀ ॥
ਪ੍ਰਭ ਤੇ ਜਨੁ ਜਾਨੀਜੈ ਜਨ ਤੇ ਸੁਆਮੀ ॥੨॥
ਸਰੀਰੁ ਆਰਾਧੈ ਮੋ ਕਉ ਬੀਚਾਰੁ ਦੇਹੂ ॥
ਰਵਿਦਾਸ ਸਮ ਦਲ ਸਮਝਾਵੈ ਕੋਊ ॥੩॥
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Translation:

You, me, me, You, what is the difference,
Like gold and bangle, water and ripple.1.
If I do not sin, O limitless Lord,
How would You be called Redeemer of fallen.1.pause.
You who are Master, are All-knowing,
Devotee is known by God, Master by His devotee.2.
Body contemplates, give me this wisdom,
Ravidas, parts are same, some rare one instructs.3.

[Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Page 93:27-34]
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Commentary:

This verse tells the difference between God and a person (and soul). The soul is the entity which has the ego, and is aware of its separate existence as a person or being. God is the Supreme God, the Creator of the world. The difference between God and a person (soul) is like difference between water and a ripple on the water surface, or like a gold ornament and gold.

In a way the ripple and the ornament are definitely water and gold respectively, but the form and life of ripple and ornament is short-lived. A ripple merges back in water, while an ornament gets melted to create new ornaments.

The verse tells of unique relationship between a Devotee and God. God is revealed by His devotees, while a devotee's power rests in God. Whatever a devotee seems to accomplish and becomes famous for, is the work of God. If a devotee worships a powerless god, the accomplishments would have more talk than substance.

At the end of the verse, Bhagat Ravidaas asks for this wisdom, and points out that few can impart this wisdom, that the parts are same as the whole.

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ਜਬ ਹਮ ਹੋਤੇ ਤਬ ਤੂ ਨਾਹੀ ਅਬ ਤੂਹੀ ਮੈ ਨਾਹੀ ॥
ਅਨਲ ਅਗਮ ਜੈਸੇ ਲਹਰਿ ਮਇ ਓਦਧਿ ਜਲ ਕੇਵਲ ਜਲ ਮਾਂਹੀ ॥੧॥
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Translation:

When we are, then You are not, now only You, I am not,
Intense gust, like wave in ocean, only water in water.1.

[Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Page 657:43-44]
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Commentary:

When a person focuses on its form of a limited and temporary wave, it misses to see itself as part of the larger eternal ocean. When the soul focuses on its form being part of the ocean, then existence and limitations of a small wave lose significance and disappear. This is an easy concept to explain and understand, but difficult to experience and internalize.

The veil which keeps a soul separated from God, is its own ego. A soul finds it very difficult to see something larger which is based on dissolving its own existence first. It can happen in an instant, or it can take a lot of time.

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ਬਹੁਰਿ ਹਮ ਕਾਹੇ ਆਵਹਿਗੇ ॥
ਆਵਨ ਜਾਨਾ ਹੁਕਮੁ ਤਿਸੈ ਕਾ ਹੁਕਮੈ ਬੁਝਿ ਸਮਾਵਹਿਗੇ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
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Translation:

Why we shall come again,
Come, go by command, merge on understanding His command.1.pause.

[Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Page 1103:30-31]
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Commentary:

The verse explains that people come and go as per God's command. Coming and going also refer to birth and death. By command I understand a set of natural and physical laws which govern this world. And it is by understanding these laws that people can act such that they are free from transmigration. The laws have been created by God, and are referred as God's commands in the verse.

One of the laws is that people will reap what they harvest. Another law is that salvation depends on whether a human being believes in the power of the Name of God, well enough to be able to remember the Name when it matters. It is only by understanding these laws that a ripple can happily merge back in water, transcending the life of the humble ripple.

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ਕਾਟੇ ਅਗਿਆਨ ਤਿਮਰ ਨਿਰਮਲੀਆ ਬੁਧਿ ਬਿਗਾਸ ਬਿਬੇਕਾ ॥
ਜਿਉ ਜਲ ਤਰੰਗ ਫੇਨੁ ਜਲ ਹੋਈ ਹੈ ਸੇਵਕ ਠਾਕੁਰ ਭਏ ਏਕਾ ॥੧॥
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Translation:

Cutting ignorance, darkness cleansed, discerning wisdom blossoms,
Like water ripple, foam, become water, the servant and Master become one.1.

[Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Page 1209:25-26]
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 Commentary:

This verse tells that darkness of ignorance can be removed by cultivating discerning wisdom. I believe wisdom can be cultivated by understanding words of wisdom, and ignorance cannot be removed by rituals. Discerning wisdom causes the humble ripple to identify itself as part of water.

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ਘਟਿ ਘਟਿ ਪੂਰਨ ਹੈ ਅਲਿਪਾਤਾ ॥
ਘਟਿ ਘਟਿ ਪੂਰਨੁ ਕਰਿ ਬਿਸਥੀਰਨੁ ਜਲ ਤਰੰਗ ਜਿਉ ਰਚਨੁ ਕੀਆ ॥
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Translation:

The Detached One is perfect in each and every place,
 Perfect expanse in each and every place, created like a water ripple.

[Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Page 1236:44-45]
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Commentary:

Water is present in all water ripples. Gold is present in all gold ornaments. Similarly God is present in all creation, and all expanse.

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ਕਬੀਰੁ ਪੂੰਗਰਾ ਰਾਮ ਅਲਹ ਕਾ ਸਭ ਗੁਰ ਪੀਰ ਹਮਾਰੇ ॥੫॥
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Translation:

Kabir is child of Ram, Allah, all teachers and prophets are our.5.

[Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Page 1349:40]
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Commentary:

In this verse Bhagat Kabir calls himself as a child of God. The Names used to identify God are popularly used by different religions. This verse highlights that The Monotheistic Diety is One by definition, irrespective of number of Names used by different religions and denominations to identify The Supreme Diety.

Another aspect presented in this verse is that all saints and prophets of The Monotheistic Deity deserve our respect and admiration, irrespective of religion or denomination. We can learn from all of them.

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ਨਾਨਕੁ ਬਾਰਿਕੁ ਕਛੂ ਨ ਜਾਨੈ ਰਾਖਨ ਕਉ ਪ੍ਰਭੁ ਮਾਈ ਬਾਪ ॥੨॥੧॥੧੪॥
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Translation:

O Nanak, child does not know anything, God cares like mother, father.2.1.14.

[Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Page 1341:30]
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Commentary:

This verse tells that like an ignorant child is protected by parents, similarly God acts as our mother and father, and protects us. You might ask, why then does God allow His child, a human being, to suffer - for more details regarding this question please refer first verse of a previous post, https://cloudverse.blogspot.com/2019/12/on-action-destiny-and-free-will.html.

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ਹਮ ਬਾਰਿਕ ਹਰਿ ਪਿਤਾ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਮੇਰੇ ਮੋ ਕਉ ਦੇਹੁ ਮਤੀ ਜਿਤੁ ਹਰਿ ਪਾਵੀਐ ਰੇ ॥
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Translation:

We children, my God, Lord, Father, give me understanding, by which I may find God.

[Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Page 1118:10]
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Commentary:

This verse again tells that we are like children of God. The verse goes on to ask God for understanding, so that a person might find God. This is an important message in this verse. If we do not ask for understanding, do not seek it, then it is unlikely that we will get understanding. If we do not want to find God, then it is unlikely he will reveal Himself. We need to seek God with the mind of a child, and not like a proud adult.

Few people with a rational bend of mind might scoff at the idea of humbling self before an imaginary entity like God, to seek understanding. A rational mind would rather seek to find concrete steps, which can be replicated at will in a controlled environment, to find and understand God (and prove His existence or non-existence). I personally believe if there are concrete steps that can be replicated at will to find and understand God, then the concrete steps and the laws that govern these steps become more powerful than God - these steps and laws control God. God becomes bound by such natural laws, which does not conform to the definition of a monotheistic God. Personally I have no need for a god who is bound by natural laws, and would argue that such an entity is not even God. Some more thoughts related to these points can be found in my free ebook published earlier on Smashwords, Irrational, https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/918120.

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ਬਾਲ ਸਖਾਈ ਭਗਤਨ ਕੋ ਮੀਤ ॥
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Translation:

Childhood helper, friend of devotee.

[Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Page 863:5]
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Commentary:

This verse tells that God was our first friend, like a childhood friend. When a person becomes a devotee of God, God again becomes a friend to the person. This is a unique statement. God does not become an overlord to a devotee, which probably God could, but God establishes a relationship of companionship with His devotees. This is one of the ways by which a person could find his or her first friend, by becoming a devotee.

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ਅਪਨੀ ਉਕਤਿ ਖਲਾਵੈ ਭੋਜਨ ਅਪਨੀ ਉਕਤਿ ਖੇਲਾਵੈ ॥
ਸਰਬ ਸੂਖ ਭੋਗ ਰਸ ਦੇਵੈ ਮਨ ਹੀ ਨਾਲਿ ਸਮਾਵੈ ॥੧॥
ਹਮਰੇ ਪਿਤਾ ਗੋਪਾਲ ਦਇਆਲ ॥
ਜਿਉ ਰਾਖੈ ਮਹਤਾਰੀ ਬਾਰਿਕ ਕਉ ਤੈਸੇ ਹੀ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਪਾਲ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
ਮੀਤ ਸਾਜਨ ਸਰਬ ਗੁਣ ਨਾਇਕ ਸਦਾ ਸਲਾਮਤਿ ਦੇਵਾ ॥
ਈਤ ਊਤ ਜਤ ਕਤ ਤਤ ਤੁਮ ਹੀ ਮਿਲੈ ਨਾਨਕ ਸੰਤ ਸੇਵਾ ॥੨॥੮॥੩੯॥
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Translation:

In Own way feeds food, in own way plays,
Gives all comfort, pleasure, taste, merges with mind alone.1.
Our Father, Sustainer, Compassionate,
Like mother preserves a child, similarly God nurtures.1.pause.
Friend, Companion, Lord of all qualities, always permanent God,
Here, there, wherever, anywhere, You are the reality, bless Nanak with service of saints.2.8.39.

[Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Page 680:27-32]
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Commentary:

This verse tells more on the relationship between God and a human being. God is like a parent to human beings, and feeds and sustains them in His own different ways.

You might ask, why then do people die of hunger? I don't know. God has taken care of me well, that is all I can say. Probably people die of hunger because some people have been given free will to hoard agricultural land parcels, and hoard food produce for trade and profit; and such people exercise their free will to hoard and keep food away from others.

Probably the people who die of hunger did not preserve the harvest, to sustain them during winter when there will be no harvest. Earth and human life has its seasons, and a harvest in one season has to sustain people until the next harvest. I believe this is how this world works. Everybody understands this, but few act on it, because they have the free will to ignore the laws and ways of this world. But the laws of this world do not bend to accommodate human trespass.

Whatever be the reason for hunger and suffering in this world, my primary concern has been understanding my position in the larger scheme of things, and not exactly understanding the larger scheme of things themselves. So there is not much that I can say on matters concerning larger humanity in general.

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ਅਸਥਾਵਰ ਜੰਗਮ ਕੀਟ ਪਤੰਗਾ ॥
ਅਨਿਕ ਜਨਮ ਕੀਏ ਬਹੁ ਰੰਗਾ ॥੧॥
ਐਸੇ ਘਰ ਹਮ ਬਹੁਤੁ ਬਸਾਏ ॥
ਜਬ ਹਮ ਰਾਮ ਗਰਭ ਹੋਇ ਆਏ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
ਜੋਗੀ ਜਤੀ ਤਪੀ ਬ੍ਰਹਮਚਾਰੀ ॥
ਕਬਹੂ ਰਾਜਾ ਛਤ੍ਰਪਤਿ ਕਬਹੂ ਭੇਖਾਰੀ ॥੨॥
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Translation:

Stationary, mobile, insect, moth,
Many births, made many colors.1.
Such houses we built many,
When we came to womb, O God.1.pause.
Yogi, abstinent, ascetic, celibate,
Sometime sovereign king, sometimes beggar.2.

[Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Page 325:56-58 and 326:1-3]
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Commentary:

This verse tells of the various births that a being takes before and while appearing as a human. To use the above analogies. A gold ornament, a human being, has been melted and recast into multiple ornaments since eternity. A ripple dies to re-emerge as another ripple on the surface of water. And this game continues eternally.

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ਭ੍ਰਮਤ ਫਿਰਤ ਬਹੁ ਜਨਮ ਬਿਲਾਨੇ ਤਨੁ ਮਨੁ ਧਨੁ ਨਹੀ ਧੀਰੇ ॥
ਲਾਲਚ ਬਿਖੁ ਕਾਮ ਲੁਬਧ ਰਾਤਾ ਮਨਿ ਬਿਸਰੇ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਹੀਰੇ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
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Translation:

Wandering, roaming, many births passed, body, mind, wealth did not become steady,
Greed, vice, lust, avarice dyed, mind has forgotten the precious God.1.pause.

[Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Page 487:22-23]
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 Commentary:

This verse describes the eternal journey of a soul. Most of us have made this journey, but here too in this life we are unable to find stability. Sometimes wondering when it will be time to leave this life too.

During this journey we forget God, and mind has been dyed by various vices that we are attracted to.

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ਜਿਉ ਜਲ ਛੋਡਿ ਬਾਹਰਿ ਭਇਓ ਮੀਨਾ ॥
ਪੂਰਬ ਜਨਮ ਹਉ ਤਪ ਕਾ ਹੀਨਾ ॥੧॥
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Translation:

Like leaving water, fish is outside,
Previous birth was devoid of devotion.1.

[Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Page 326:20-21]
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Commentary:

I believe these are very important lines concerning our lives. It tells that the primary reason why a human feels miserable is that one did not practice devotion in previous lives. This verse tells about the seasons of the soul. A soul eats the harvest in this life, that was planted in a previous season or life. If nothing useful was sown, then there will be no particularly useful harvest in this life.

A fish outside water feels suffocated, and unable to move freely. Many people feel trapped in their current lives also, much like a fish out of water. Trapped in places, jobs, family, financial and social obligations, unable to spend their days freely.

An indirect teaching of this verse is that in the season of this life, it will be wise for a person to sow devotion. Practice devotion to One God, which gives eternal harvest, enough to sustain a soul till eternity.

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ਹਮ ਕੂਕਰ ਤੇਰੇ ਦਰਬਾਰਿ ॥
ਭਉਕਹਿ ਆਗੈ ਬਦਨੁ ਪਸਾਰਿ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
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Translation:

We are dog of your court,
Bark in front, stretching face.1.pause.

[Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Page 969:34-35]
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Commentary:

The verses here explain different perspectives which are sometimes difficult to understand when taken together. The complexity of concepts related to human existence make use of analogies essential, and each analogy describe one aspect of existence, but seldom describe all aspects.

Present verse gives an analogy of being of the nature of a dog. A dog guards, is faithful and alert. These are qualities which are essential for practicing devotion also. A person has to guard one's mind from unnecessary thoughts of greed, anger, lust, attachment and pride. A person has to be faithful to the idea of being devoted to God, and not be swayed by other shallow promises. Finally a person needs to be alert to new developments which might shake a person's faith, and protect one's mind from constant attack of frivolous thoughts.

Please refer the last verse in the post, to get a different and more concrete perspective of the basic idea presented in this verse. Why exactly do we need to be alert when God controls everything in this world? Will not God take care? Please refer the last verse.

A more literal interpretation of this verse would be that a devotee also guards the intellectual concepts of a theological system. Presenting the ideas, giving clarifications, and answering questions about a system.

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ਅਬ ਤਉ ਜਾਇ ਚਢੇ ਸਿੰਘਾਸਨਿ ਮਿਲੇ ਹੈ ਸਾਰਿੰਗਪਾਨੀ ॥
ਰਾਮ ਕਬੀਰਾ ਏਕ ਭਏ ਹੈ ਕੋਇ ਨ ਸਕੈ ਪਛਾਨੀ ॥੬॥੩॥
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Translation:

Now go and climb the throne, meeting the Lord of the world,
God, Kabir, have become one, nobody is able to recognize.6.3.

[Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Page 969:30-31]
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Commentary:

This verse tells of final state of a devotee. A state in which a ripple realizes that it is just part of a larger water body. A state in which a gold ornament realizes that it's essential nature is gold, irrespective of the form of the ornament. It is in this state that the devotee becomes one with God, and it is difficult to tell the difference between God and a devotee.

Many religious and spiritual systems describe different final states of a spiritual practice. Some promise heaven, some promise nirvana (freedom from transmigration), while others promise spiritual powers. All the possible states may not be mutually exclusive. As per my understanding the final stable state is union with God, a state where a person becomes indistinguishable from the Supreme Entity.

Using the previous analogies, a ripple will never be stable until it realizes that it is all of water, and it leaves its attachment to being a ripple. A gold ornament will never realize it is gold, same as in all other gold ornaments, unless it leaves its attachment to its present form. This form of spiritual practice is essentially about developing a percipient perspective and realization, rather than practicing rituals or discipline. Rituals and discipline can help develop discernment, but they are never the final goal.

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ਮਾਟੀ ਕੋ ਪੁਤਰਾ ਕੈਸੇ ਨਚਤੁ ਹੈ ॥
ਦੇਖੈ ਦੇਖੈ ਸੁਨੈ ਬੋਲੈ ਦਉਰਿਓ ਫਿਰਤੁ ਹੈ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
ਜਬ ਕਛੁ ਪਾਵੈ ਤਬ ਗਰਬੁ ਕਰਤੁ ਹੈ ॥
ਮਾਇਆ ਗਈ ਤਬ ਰੋਵਨੁ ਲਗਤੁ ਹੈ ॥੧॥
ਮਨ ਬਚ ਕ੍ਰਮ ਰਸ ਕਸਹਿ ਲੁਭਾਨਾ ॥
ਬਿਨਸਿ ਗਇਆ ਜਾਇ ਕਹੂੰ ਸਮਾਨਾ ॥੨॥
ਕਹਿ ਰਵਿਦਾਸ ਬਾਜੀ ਜਗੁ ਭਾਈ ॥
ਬਾਜੀਗਰ ਸਉ ਮੋੁਹਿ ਪ੍ਰੀਤਿ ਬਨਿ ਆਈ ॥੩॥੬॥
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Translation:

Puppet of clay, how it dances,
Sees, sees, hears, speaks, runs and roams.1.pause.
When it obtains something, then it is proud,
When illusion goes, then it starts to weep.1.
Mind, word, deed, trapped in sweet pleasures,
On death, where it goes and merges.2.
Ravidas speaks, world is a wager, brother,
The Architect of the wager, I have come to love.3.6.

[Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Page 487:13-20]
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Commentary:

This verse compares a human body to a clay puppet, and describes the normal state of a human being. Human body is made up of clay for most part, and after death the body merges back to Earth. Like a puppet show, the human body does all the actions like a puppet. As in a puppet show the human body displays pleasure on receiving good things, while it displays grief when it suffers a loss or when an illusion is broken.

The verse further speaks of the pleasures of mind, deed and words, that a person experiences during life, and asks the reader to ponder where does the person go at the time of death. Bhagat Ravidas finally tells that the world is a wager, a place where people place bets, bets with eternal consequence. He further tells that he is in love with the Architect of this world, God.

In this verse, the world is called a sport, a drama, a game, a wager, and God as someone who has set the game. It is difficult to know or understand why this would be so, but that is how it is. Of all the synonyms for word game, I believe the word wager is the closest translation.

Human civilization has progressed for hundreds of years, and made excellent progress, but the very basic questions of theology and spirituality still remain unanswered. I mean these questions have been answered, but there is no way to confirm whether the answer is correct or not. Some of the basic questions on purpose of human life, nature of human soul, and nature of God. People can spend their entire life pondering them, without making any progress on these questions, humanity has spent many centuries.

Many religions proclaim that human actions and choices in this life would affect a person's eternal destiny. And whatever choice a human being makes regarding spirituality or religious matters in this life, it is likely to be a function of faith, and not science. And this choice will have an eternal consequence. From this perspective, this life and world does look like a gamble, making a choice without enough information. The only certain way to win this gamble is to be friends with the One who owns the gambling house and is the Creator of the game. Be in love with the Creator, not because that is the only way to transcend this wager, but also because He has countless other qualities and is our only constant companion.

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 ਕਿਰਤਿ ਕਰਮ ਕੇ ਵੀਛੁੜੇ ਕਰਿ ਕਿਰਪਾ ਮੇਲਹੁ ਰਾਮ ॥
ਚਾਰਿ ਕੁੰਟ ਦਹ ਦਿਸ ਭ੍ਰਮੇ ਥਕਿ ਆਏ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਕੀ ਸਾਮ ॥
ਧੇਨੁ ਦੁਧੈ ਤੇ ਬਾਹਰੀ ਕਿਤੈ ਨ ਆਵੈ ਕਾਮ ॥
ਜਲ ਬਿਨੁ ਸਾਖ ਕੁਮਲਾਵਤੀ ਉਪਜਹਿ ਨਾਹੀ ਦਾਮ ॥
ਹਰਿ ਨਾਹ ਨ ਮਿਲੀਐ ਸਾਜਨੈ ਕਤ ਪਾਈਐ ਬਿਸਰਾਮ ॥
ਜਿਤੁ ਘਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਕੰਤੁ ਨ ਪ੍ਰਗਟਈ ਭਠਿ ਨਗਰ ਸੇ ਗ੍ਰਾਮ ॥
ਸ੍ਰਬ ਸੀਗਾਰ ਤੰਬੋਲ ਰਸ ਸਣੁ ਦੇਹੀ ਸਭ ਖਾਮ ॥
ਪ੍ਰਭ ਸੁਆਮੀ ਕੰਤ ਵਿਹੂਣੀਆ ਮੀਤ ਸਜਣ ਸਭਿ ਜਾਮ ॥
ਨਾਨਕ ਕੀ ਬੇਨੰਤੀਆ ਕਰਿ ਕਿਰਪਾ ਦੀਜੈ ਨਾਮੁ ॥
ਹਰਿ ਮੇਲਹੁ ਸੁਆਮੀ ਸੰਗਿ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਜਿਸ ਕਾ ਨਿਹਚਲ ਧਾਮ ॥੧॥
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Translation:

Separated by deeds, actions, have mercy, unite us God,
Wandering four corners, all ten directions, tired, came to refuge of God,
Cow without milk, is not useful anywhere,
Without water, crop withers, value is not created,
Not meeting Husband Lord, how can we find rest,
The house in which Husband God does not appear, such towns, villages are furnace,
All make-up, betel juice, along with body, are all incomplete,
Without God, Lord, Husband, All friends, beloved, are like Jaam,
Request of Nanak, be merciful and give Name,
Lord, God, unite us, God whose home is steady.1.

[Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Page 133:9-18]
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Commentary:

This verse give many different details about our existence. We have been separated from God due to our deeds and actions. Only God and God's home is steady in this world. And when a soul is tired of its eternal journey, or its eternal unsteady existence, it has to turn to God to find stability.

God has been described using many different words like Parent, Friend, Master and others depending on the context of the verse. In this verse God has been described primarily as a Husband. From a spiritual perspective a soul is considered to be a feminine entity (irrespective of the type of body that it resides in), while God is the only spiritual masculine entity**. So in this sense the union of God and a soul is much like a union between spouses, the only thing which will make the soul steady. Without God, all interactions of soul with others only bring it closer to death and transmigration (Jaam, sometimes pronounced yum, is the messenger of death).

The verse finally end with a prayer by Guru Sahib, requesting God to be merciful and grant His Name, and eventually unite us with Himself.

**Note: Verse: "ਇਸੁ ਜਗ ਮਹਿ ਪੁਰਖੁ ਏਕੁ ਹੈ ਹੋਰ ਸਗਲੀ ਨਾਰਿ ਸਬਾਈ ॥ Translation: In this world, is One Man (Lord), other all are women (wife). Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Page 591:39" - As I understand this verse is that in essence God has no gender. But when souls manifest in non-physical plane, God is the only masculine principle, while all souls are feminine. While in physical plane souls inhabit bodies of both genders. This is just my understanding, and I hope I am accurate.
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ਹਉ ਗੋਸਾਈ ਦਾ ਪਹਿਲਵਾਨੜਾ ॥
ਮੈ ਗੁਰ ਮਿਲਿ ਉਚ ਦੁਮਾਲੜਾ ॥
ਸਭ ਹੋਈ ਛਿੰਝ ਇਕਠੀਆ ਦਯੁ ਬੈਠਾ ਵੇਖੈ ਆਪਿ ਜੀਉ ॥੧੭॥
ਵਾਤ ਵਜਨਿ ਟੰਮਕ ਭੇਰੀਆ ॥
ਮਲ ਲਥੇ ਲੈਦੇ ਫੇਰੀਆ ॥
ਨਿਹਤੇ ਪੰਜਿ ਜੁਆਨ ਮੈ ਗੁਰ ਥਾਪੀ ਦਿਤੀ ਕੰਡਿ ਜੀਉ ॥੧੮॥
ਸਭ ਇਕਠੇ ਹੋਇ ਆਇਆ ॥
ਘਰਿ ਜਾਸਨਿ ਵਾਟ ਵਟਾਇਆ ॥
ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਲਾਹਾ ਲੈ ਗਏ ਮਨਮੁਖ ਚਲੇ ਮੂਲੁ ਗਵਾਇ ਜੀਉ ॥੧੯॥
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Translation:

Am a wrestler of Master,
I met Guru, have High plume,
All have gathered in arena, God sits, sees Himself, Sir.17.
Instruments play, drums, trumpets,
Wrestlers came, circle around,
I floored five strong men, Guru gave pat on back, Sir.18.
All came and gathered,
Go home, changing paths,
Gurmukh go, taking profit, Manmukh go, losing capital, Sir.19.

[Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, Page 74:19-27]
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Commentary:

This is a fascinating verse, and I believe very important to understand our position in this life. Shakespeare wrote, "All the world’s a stage, And all the men and women merely players;", but it reduces role of people to actors, with no real consequences and make-believe problems.

I believe, as the above scripture tells us, "All the world's a wrestling arena, And all of us are wrestlers. Not fighting each other, but fighting five primal vices." The five vices, or temptations, are Kam, Krodh, Lobh, Moh, and Ahankar (Lust, Anger, Greed, Attachment and Ego/Pride).

This is a metaphor describing a particular aspect of human existence, a constant struggle within and without, starting from birth and possibly ending at death. A human being is a wrestler who belongs to God, the Master. This life is a spiritual wrestling arena where victory or defeat could have eternal consequences. The five challengers are the fundamental vices who tempt a human being to commit sins, and eventually lose the match. The vices are the root of most of the sins that a human being commits, and not succumbing to their temptations is the primary spiritual battle each of us have to go through in this life. Also in this wrestling match the vices outnumber each one of us, so keeping like-minded good company helps in our battles.

As per my understanding, in traditional wrestling matches in India, the prominent wrestlers arrived on the arenas dressed in turbans and plumes, with accompanying flourish of trumpets and drums. Every person takes pride in following teachings of a Mentor, a Guru, and a high plume signifies the confidence and pride of the wrestler in the teachings of his or her Guru.

As with every wrestling match, there are consequences. There is victory or loss. There is hurt, and bleeding. And most importantly there are adversaries. Presence of a spiritual struggle is a common concept in many spiritual systems, and here we find that more specific details of the struggle have been described.

People ask why is there struggle and suffering in this life? One possible answer is that human life on Earth is a setup for a spiritual wrestling match, the parameters and conditions for which no player remembers till the time of the match. With full and proper knowledge there will be no real match, as people would know the consequences. The prize is eternal destiny of individual soul. Scriptures tell us that during our eternal journey, a soul rarely gets a chance to enter this human life, which is not unsurprising considering the eternal prize at stake.

In this spiritual arena on Earth, people accept teachings of one of the many available mentors, a Guru. And based on the teachings and understanding try to live their life in best way possible, keep vices at bay. Everybody watches the competition, including God Himself. A wrestler goes about life struggling with different vices and temptations, taking action, suffering the consequences of these actions and choices. Sometimes turning out victorious, and sometimes not.

When this wrestling match ends (when individual life ends), our future paths are reset depending on how each one of us perform in the match. Best way to win this match is to be a Gurmukh. Gurmukh is one who has face turned towards Guru, and follows the instructions of the Guru. Guru is a word for a mentor, and implicitly means that the Guru knows the correct path and gives correct instructions. Onus of finding a real Guru, or Teacher, is on each person. I try to follow the teachings of Shri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, although I need to be a much better student.

Best way to lose the match is to be a Manmukh. Manmukh is one who has face turned towards self, towards own ego, and does what a person feels right. Implication being that human life is short, and a human being is unlikely to find real useful knowledge without finding a proper mentor, a teacher who could equip a person with useful knowledge and teaching to live this life, and defeat its various temptations.

The capital with which we enter this arena of human life is number of breaths for this life. For simplicity, I sometimes refer to this concept incorrectly as amount of time we have in this life, or moments in life. Scriptures tell us that when number of breaths are exhausted for an individual, the individual departs from this life (or arena). A Gurmukh is most likely to win something valuable in return for this life, while a Manmukh is most likely to lose the capital (spend life without getting anything in return). So human life is a spiritual wrestling match, with an accompanying wager!
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Sunday, September 8, 2019

Purpose of life

Main points: 
  1. Purpose of human life is to plant the Name of God in one's mind and consciousness. The planted Name will eventually sprout to affection, love and companionship with God, which is eternal wealth. Purpose of human life is to earn this eternal wealth.
  2. Above purpose of human life does not mean that a person should not do anything else - what a person does or does not do is a matter for another post. It means that the above purpose should be the central point around which a person builds one's life, but a person is free to do normal regular work, and is advised to keep remembrance of God at all times.
  3. Reading, and listening to words of wisdom help to fortify one's devotion. Singing or listening to praise of God also helps.
  4. A person needs basic life comforts like healthy food and comfortable lodging to be able to find reasons, time and leisure to perform devotional worship.
  5. If a person lacks the basic amenities for living, then it is fine to pray to God to provide the same, which will enable a person to live a comfortable life and practice devotion.
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Reference verses with commentary:
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ਜਿਸਹਿ ਸਾਜਿ ਨਿਵਾਜਿਆ ਤਿਸਹਿ ਸਿਉ ਰੁਚ ਨਾਹਿ ॥
ਆਨ ਰੂਤੀ ਆਨ ਬੋਈਐ ਫਲੁ ਨ ਫੂਲੈ ਤਾਹਿ ॥੧॥
ਰੇ ਮਨ ਵਤ੍ਰ ਬੀਜਣ ਨਾਉ ॥ 
ਬੋਇ ਖੇਤੀ ਲਾਇ ਮਨੂਆ ਭਲੋ ਸਮਉ ਸੁਆਉ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
ਖੋਇ ਖਹੜਾ ਭਰਮੁ ਮਨ ਕਾ ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਸਰਣੀ ਜਾਇ ॥
ਕਰਮੁ ਜਿਸ ਕਉ ਧੁਰਹੁ ਲਿਖਿਆ ਸੋਈ ਕਾਰ ਕਮਾਇ ॥੨॥ 
ਭਾਉ ਲਾਗਾ ਗੋਬਿਦ ਸਿਉ ਘਾਲ ਪਾਈ ਥਾਇ ॥ 
ਖੇਤਿ ਮੇਰੈ ਜੰਮਿਆ ਨਿਖੁਟਿ ਨ ਕਬਹੂ ਜਾਇ ॥੩॥
ਪਾਇਆ ਅਮੋਲੁ ਪਦਾਰਥੋ ਛੋਡਿ ਨ ਕਤਹੂ ਜਾਇ ॥
ਕਹੁ ਨਾਨਕ ਸੁਖੁ ਪਾਇਆ ਤ੍ਰਿਪਤਿ ਰਹੇ ਆਘਾਇ ॥੪॥੪॥੧੩॥ 
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Translation:
You do not like the one who made and adorned you,
Seed planted out of season does not sprout nor flower||1||,
O mind, accept and plant the Name,
My mind, to plant now is the right time and purpose||1||
. (Pause)
Make effort to leave doubt of mind, go in refuge of True Guru,
For whom God has decided since beginning, only they practice this||2||,
On finding love for God, one's effort are blessed and accepted,
My plant has sprouted, and it will never be exhausted||3||
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Finding priceless wealth, which will never leave me,
Nanak says, finding bliss, I am happy and satiated||4||4||13||.
[Shri Guru Granth Sahib, Page 1002:16-25]
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Commentary:

This lifetime is correct time to plant the Name of God in a person's consciousness and mind, and this is the primary purpose of human life. Season of human life is suitable for this purpose, and any other activity if it takes prominence during this lifetime will not have much use, as it will most likely not be suitable for the season of a human lifetime. The Name planted in a person's consciousness will eventually sprout to create affection and love for God. Affection and closeness to God is a wealth, a companionship which has eternal value, and will be useful for a person in this life as well as till eternity. The process of planting a Name in consciousnesses is like planting anything else in mind, remembering the Name, chanting the Name, realizing its importance, listening and reading about it.

A person always has a choice of doing a lot of possible things, but other tasks may have no eternal value as they could be considered out-of-season for human life. Planting Name may or may not be an exclusive activity, but needs to be a primary activity, important enough that mind realizes the importance of Name.
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ਆਇਓ ਸੁਨਨ ਪੜਨ ਕਉ ਬਾਣੀ ॥
ਨਾਮੁ ਵਿਸਾਰਿ ਲਗਹਿ ਅਨ ਲਾਲਚਿ ਬਿਰਥਾ ਜਨਮੁ ਪਰਾਣੀ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
ਸਮਝੁ ਅਚੇਤ ਚੇਤਿ ਮਨ ਮੇਰੇ ਕਥੀ ਸੰਤਨ ਅਕਥ ਕਹਾਣੀ ॥
ਲਾਭੁ ਲੈਹੁ ਹਰਿ ਰਿਦੈ ਅਰਾਧਹੁ ਛੁਟਕੈ ਆਵਣ ਜਾਣੀ ॥੧॥
ਉਦਮੁ ਸਕਤਿ ਸਿਆਣਪ ਤੁਮ੍ਹ੍ਹਰੀ ਦੇਹਿ ਤ ਨਾਮੁ ਵਖਾਣੀ ॥
ਸੇਈ ਭਗਤ ਭਗਤਿ ਸੇ ਲਾਗੇ ਨਾਨਕ ਜੋ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਭਾਣੀ ॥੨॥੫੬॥੭੯॥
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Translation:
Having come to listen and read the true word,
Forgetting Name, involved in other greed, one wastes life
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Understand and think my ignorant mind, saints tell the unutterable story,
Take benefit, worship God in your heart, your coming and going will stop||1||,
If you bless me with hard work, strength, and wisdom, then I speak the Name,
Only they are saints, only they practice devotion, who are pleasing to God||2||56||79||.
[Shri Guru Granth Sahib, Page 1219:30-35]
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Commentary:

As the season of human life is suitable for developing affection for God, listening and reading words which give truly useful and valuable knowledge needs to be one of the primary activity in human life. Saints share knowledge and stories which talk of things that cannot be explained, as a lot of spiritual experiences are difficult to explain in words and needs to be experienced personally. But still the saints describe experiences and stories in a way that people can get benefit after reading the texts. It is difficult to tell who is a saint, or who is not, as a true definition of a saint is a person who God makes and accepts as a saint.

Many spiritual and religious systems talk about Salvation and Nirvana, which is an escape from a possibly undesirable afterlife. Remembering Name of God is the simplest and most effective way to escape a possibly undesirable afterlife, but there is more. Name of God also ensures a pleasant eternity. Discipline, strength and wisdom to chant the Name is given by God, and if a person lacks it, then a person could pray for receiving the same.
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ਨਾਮਾ ਮਾਇਆ ਮੋਹਿਆ ਕਹੈ ਤਿਲੋਚਨੁ ਮੀਤ ॥
ਕਾਹੇ ਛੀਪਹੁ ਛਾਇਲੈ ਰਾਮ ਨ ਲਾਵਹੁ ਚੀਤੁ ॥੨੧੨॥
ਨਾਮਾ ਕਹੈ ਤਿਲੋਚਨਾ ਮੁਖ ਤੇ ਰਾਮੁ ਸੰਮ੍ਹ੍ਹਾਲਿ ॥
ਹਾਥ ਪਾਉ ਕਰਿ ਕਾਮੁ ਸਭੁ ਚੀਤੁ ਨਿਰੰਜਨ ਨਾਲਿ ॥੨੧੩॥
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Translation:
Tirlochan says, Nam Dev my friend, Maya has bewitched you,
Why do prints on cloth, you do not remember God||212||,
Nam Dev speaks, Trilochan, mouth chants the Name of God,
Hands and feet do all work, mind stays focused on God||213||.
[Shri Guru Granth Sahib, Page 1375:37-39 and Page 1376:1]
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Commentary:

Many people believe that living a spiritual life involves becoming a monk and avoiding an active involvement in society or profession. Some people in mainstream society believe that if everybody starts living a spiritual life then people will be unproductive. The above verse gives a reasonable approach from both perspectives. Society, whether mainstream society or monastic life, is based on division of labor, dividing necessary tasks among inhabitants and making the community functional.

When Bhagat Tirlochan challenges Bhagat Nam Dev on latter's involvement in a profession, Bhagat Nam Dev replies that hands and feet keep doing all the necessary work, while mind internally remains focused on God's remembrance. This implies that any necessary work that a person needs to do to meet the needs of life are done, but keeping God's remembrance always in mind.
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ਭੂਖੇ ਭਗਤਿ ਨ ਕੀਜੈ ॥
ਯਹ ਮਾਲਾ ਅਪਨੀ ਲੀਜੈ ॥
ਹਉ ਮਾਂਗਉ ਸੰਤਨ ਰੇਨਾ ॥
ਮੈ ਨਾਹੀ ਕਿਸੀ ਕਾ ਦੇਨਾ ॥੧॥
ਮਾਧੋ ਕੈਸੀ ਬਨੈ ਤੁਮ ਸੰਗੇ ॥
ਆਪਿ ਨ ਦੇਹੁ ਤ ਲੇਵਉ ਮੰਗੇ ॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
ਦੁਇ ਸੇਰ ਮਾਂਗਉ ਚੂਨਾ ॥
ਪਾਉ ਘੀਉ ਸੰਗਿ ਲੂਨਾ ॥
ਅਧ ਸੇਰੁ ਮਾਂਗਉ ਦਾਲੇ ॥
ਮੋ ਕਉ ਦੋਨਉ ਵਖਤ ਜਿਵਾਲੇ ॥੨॥
ਖਾਟ ਮਾਂਗਉ ਚਉਪਾਈ ॥
ਸਿਰਹਾਨਾ ਅਵਰ ਤੁਲਾਈ ॥
ਊਪਰ ਕਉ ਮਾਂਗਉ ਖੀਂਧਾ ॥
ਤੇਰੀ ਭਗਤਿ ਕਰੈ ਜਨੁ ਥੀਬ਼ਧਾ ॥੩॥
ਮੈ ਨਾਹੀ ਕੀਤਾ ਲਬੋ ॥
ਇਕੁ ਨਾਉ ਤੇਰਾ ਮੈ ਫਬੋ ॥
ਕਹਿ ਕਬੀਰ ਮਨੁ ਮਾਨਿਆ ॥
ਮਨੁ ਮਾਨਿਆ ਤਉ ਹਰਿ ਜਾਨਿਆ ॥੪॥੧੧॥
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Translation:
The hungry cannot do devotional worship,
Here take back your rosary,
I ask for feet dust of saints,
I do not owe anyone anything.||1||
Lord of illusions, how can I restore relationship with you,
If you do not give, then I myself will beg and receive
.||Pause||
I ask for two kilograms of flour,
Quarter kilograms clarified butter, also salt,
I ask for half kilogram lentils,
Which will nourish me twice a day.||2||
I ask for a four legged cot,
A pillow and a cotton mattress,
For covering I ask for a blanket,
Your devotee will worship with devotion.||3||
I have not been greedy,
Your Name is my one ornament,
Kabir says, my mind has acknowledged,
Mind acknowledged, then I came to know God.||4||11||

[Shri Guru Granth Sahib, Page 656:37-54]
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Commentary:

This verse records a conversation between Bhagat Kabir and God. Bhagat Kabir tells God that it is not possible to do devotional worship with a hungry stomach and while living in discomfort. For a comfortable life Bhagat Kabir requests for basic ration of food, and bedding for rest. Once basic needs of life and mind are satisfied then Bhagat Kabir says that now it is possible to do devotional worship.

A few important things that I understand from this verse are that if a person has some discomfort and finds it difficult to perform devotional worship, then it is absolutely fine to pray to God for providing rations, as long as a person is not greedy. A satisfied body and mind has more reasons to be grateful to God than a dissatisfied one. Once a mind is grateful to God, it acknowledges God's power and when a mind accepts God only then it is possible for a person to know God.

A concept of feet-dust is referred in the above verse. Literally speaking it refers to dust that is settled on a person's feet, or maybe also the small dust cloud raised while a person walks. Literal interpretation would mean that a person humbles oneself before a saint, not only physically but mentally also, enough to be able to accept the teachings of saints. But it is difficult to find and identify a saint, unless a person is very lucky, so teachings of saints are a substitute. Non-literal meaning as I understand it is that feet-dust of saints refers to teachings derived from words of Saints. In many Indic languages a word for feet and word is same, पद or pad, and from this perspective feet-dust would mean words of saints which contain their wisdom and guidance.

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ਕਥਾ ਕੀਰਤਨੁ ਰਾਗ ਨਾਦ ਧੁਨਿ ਇਹੁ ਬਨਿਓ ਸੁਆਉ ॥
ਨਾਨਕ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਸੁਪ੍ਰਸੰਨ ਭਏ ਬਾਂਛਤ ਫਲ ਪਾਉ ॥੨॥੬॥੭੦॥
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Translation:
Sermon, kirtan, scale, sound, tune, this has become my purpose,
O Nanak, God is pleased, receive desired fruit.||2||6||70||
[Shri Guru Granth Sahib, Page 818:16-17]
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Commentary:
Listening to sermons and discourses about God, singing praise of God help in fortifying devotion to God. So it is also a true purpose of life. Having an intimate loving relationship with God also helps in fulfilling a person's wishes.
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ਜਿਹਵੇ ਅੰਮ੍ਰਿਤ ਗੁਣ ਹਰਿ ਗਾਉ ॥
ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਬੋਲਿ ਕਥਾ ਸੁਨਿ ਹਰਿ ਕੀ ਉਚਰਹੁ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਕੋ ਨਾਉ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
ਰਾਮ ਨਾਮੁ ਰਤਨ ਧਨੁ ਸੰਚਹੁ ਮਨਿ ਤਨਿ ਲਾਵਹੁ ਭਾਉ ॥
ਆਨ ਬਿਭੂਤ ਮਿਥਿਆ ਕਰਿ ਮਾਨਹੁ ਸਾਚਾ ਇਹੈ ਸੁਆਉ ॥੧॥
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Translation:
My tongue sing the elixir of God's praise,
Speak God, God, listen to discourse of the lord, speak Name of God,
Collect wealth of jewel of God's Name, Ram, Ram, love with mind and body,
Consider other wealth an illusion, this is true purpose of life.||1||
[Shri Guru Granth Sahib, Page 1219:9-10]
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Commentary:
Anything which strengthens love for God is like an elixir which gives eternal life and wealth, including listening to sermons, singing praise of God, and chanting Name of God. So collecting eternal wealth of God's Name is true purpose, while other kind of wealth is an illusion which a person will lose at time of death.
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ਘਾਲਿ ਖਾਇ ਕਿਛੁ ਹਥਹੁ ਦੇਇ ॥ 
ਨਾਨਕ ਰਾਹੁ ਪਛਾਣਹਿ ਸੇਇ ॥੧॥  
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Translation:
One who works hard to earn a living, gives some of what one has,
O Nanak, such a person knows the way.||1||
[Shri Guru Granth Sahib, Page 1245:47-48]
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Commentary:

While developing devotion is true purpose, but daily physical requirements also need to be met, so working hard in an honest profession is recommended. One who does honest hard work to earn a living, while also sharing some of whatever one has, such a person knows the true path.

This verse appears as part of a larger verse which refers primarily to people who preach wisdom to others. The ones who do honest work, share something of what they have, are more likely to know the correct way, than other preachers (irrespective to any particular sect or religion). As per my understanding, the same principle could be extended to other people also, and apply not just to preachers or guides.

With reference to people who preach (in any religion or sect), the professional preacher is a very respectable and privileged position. Professional preachers may be very knowledgeable and have good intentions, but being in a privileged position there are chances that they may never have encountered some type of difficult situations in life, that an average person encounters during daily life. Average people balance multiple things in life; work, family, finances, loans, social obligations, discrimination, etc, etc, without any special privilege, support, love, or respect coming their way, and if they want to learn about squeezing spiritual practice in their already busy life they may find a fellow worker's teaching more practical and easier to follow.
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Wednesday, September 4, 2019

Do we come and go, with empty hands?

Reference verses:

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 ਅਬ ਕਲੂ ਆਇਓ ਰੇ ॥
ਇਕੁ ਨਾਮੁ ਬੋਵਹੁ ਬੋਵਹੁ ॥
ਅਨ ਰੂਤਿ ਨਾਹੀ ਨਾਹੀ ॥
ਮਤੁ ਭਰਮਿ ਭੂਲਹੁ ਭੂਲਹੁ ॥
ਗੁਰ ਮਿਲੇ ਹਰਿ ਪਾਏ ॥
ਜਿਸੁ ਮਸਤਕਿ ਹੈ ਲੇਖਾ ॥
ਮਨ ਰੁਤਿ ਨਾਮ ਰੇ ॥
ਗੁਨ ਕਹੇ ਨਾਨਕ ਹਰਿ ਹਰੇ ਹਰਿ ਹਰੇ ॥੨॥੧੮॥
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Translation:
Now Kaliyug has come,
Plant, plant one Name,
No, no other season,

Wander not, don't wander in doubt,
Meet Guru, find God,
On whose forehead is such destiny,
O mind, this is the season for Name,
Nanak speaks praise, O God, O God.||2||18||
[Shri Guru Granth Sahib, Page 1185:17-24]
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ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਮੇਰਾ ਅੰਤਿ ਸਖਾਈ ਗੁਰਿ ਸਤਿਗੁਰਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਦ੍ਰਿੜਾਇਆ ॥
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Translation:
God, Name of God is my companion in the end,
Guru, True Guru helped me believe in the Name.
[Shri Guru Granth Sahib, Page 573:30]
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ਬਿਨੁ ਨਾਵੈ ਕੋ ਸਾਥਿ ਨ ਚਾਲੈ ਪੁਤ੍ਰ ਕਲਤ੍ਰ ਮਾਇਆ ਧੋਹਿਆ ॥
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Translation:
Without Name, no one accompanies,
Sons, wife, nor maya tricks.
[Shri Guru Granth Sahib, Page 690:25]
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ਨਾਨਕ ਨਾਮੁ ਬੀਜਿ ਮਨ ਅੰਦਰਿ ਸਚੈ ਸਬਦਿ ਸੁਭਾਏ ॥੨॥
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Translation:
O Nanak, plant The Name in mind, True word is pleasing.||2||
[Shri Guru Granth Sahib, Page 568:29]
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ਨਾਮੋ ਬੀਜੇ ਨਾਮੋ ਜੰਮੈ ਨਾਮੋ ਮੰਨਿ ਵਸਾਏ ॥
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Translation:
Sow Name, Name germinates, establish Name in mind.
[Shri Guru Granth Sahib, Page 246:24]
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ਜਿਨੀ ਐਸਾ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਨ ਚੇਤਿਓ ਸੇ ਕਾਹੇ ਜਗਿ ਆਏ ਰਾਮ ਰਾਜੇ ॥
ਇਹੁ ਮਾਣਸ ਜਨਮੁ ਦੁਲੰਭੁ ਹੈ ਨਾਮ ਬਿਨਾ ਬਿਰਥਾ ਸਭੁ ਜਾਏ ॥
ਹੁਣਿ ਵਤੈ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਨ ਬੀਜਿਓ ਅਗੈ ਭੁਖਾ ਕਿਆ ਖਾਏ ॥
ਮਨਮੁਖਾ ਨੋ ਫਿਰਿ ਜਨਮੁ ਹੈ ਨਾਨਕ ਹਰਿ ਭਾਏ ॥੨॥
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Translation:
They who do not remember such Name, why did they come to this world,
This human life is hard to obtain, without Name it all goes waste,
One who does not plant Name in this season, hereafter what will the hungry eat,

The wilful will be born again, O Nanak, such is God's wish.||2||
[Shri Guru Granth Sahib, Page 450:15-18]
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ਜਹ ਮਾਤ ਪਿਤਾ ਸੁਤ ਮੀਤ ਨ ਭਾਈ ॥
ਮਨ ਊਹਾ ਨਾਮੁ ਤੇਰੈ ਸੰਗਿ ਸਹਾਈ ॥
ਜਹ ਮਹਾ ਭਇਆਨ ਦੂਤ ਜਮ ਦਲੈ ॥
ਤਹ ਕੇਵਲ ਨਾਮੁ ਸੰਗਿ ਤੇਰੈ ਚਲੈ ॥
ਜਹ ਮੁਸਕਲ ਹੋਵੈ ਅਤਿ ਭਾਰੀ ॥
ਹਰਿ ਕੋ ਨਾਮੁ ਖਿਨ ਮਾਹਿ ਉਧਾਰੀ ॥
ਅਨਿਕ ਪੁਨਹਚਰਨ ਕਰਤ ਨਹੀ ਤਰੈ ॥
ਹਰਿ ਕੋ ਨਾਮੁ ਕੋਟਿ ਪਾਪ ਪਰਹਰੈ ॥
ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਜਪਹੁ ਮਨ ਮੇਰੇ ॥
ਨਾਨਕ ਪਾਵਹੁ ਸੂਖ ਘਨੇਰੇ ॥੧॥
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Translation:
Where there is no mother, father, son, friend, nor brother,
My mind, there The Name will be your help.
When the great terrible messenger of death will crush,
There only The Name will walk with you.

Where difficulties are very heavy,
Name of God will save in an instant.
Many devout actions may not liberate,
Name of God will annul countless sins.
My devout mind chant The Name of God,
O Nanak, you will get many joys.||1||
[Shri Guru Granth Sahib, Page 264:2-11]
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 ਤੇਰੈ ਕਾਜਿ ਨ ਗ੍ਰਿਹੁ ਰਾਜੁ ਮਾਲੁ ॥
ਤੇਰੈ ਕਾਜਿ ਨ ਬਿਖੈ ਜੰਜਾਲੁ ॥
ਇਸਟ ਮੀਤ ਜਾਣੁ ਸਭ ਛਲੈ ॥
ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਸੰਗਿ ਤੇਰੈ ਚਲੈ ॥੧॥
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Translation:
House, power and wealth will not cover you,
Sinful entanglements will not cover you,
Know all dear friends as an illusion,
God, Name of God will go with you.||1||
[Shri Guru Granth Sahib, Page 889:30-33]
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ਕਬੀਰ ਲੂਟਨਾ ਹੈ ਤ ਲੂਟਿ ਲੈ ਰਾਮ ਨਾਮ ਹੈ ਲੂਟਿ ॥
ਫਿਰਿ ਪਾਛੈ ਪਛੁਤਾਹੁਗੇ ਪ੍ਰਾਨ ਜਾਹਿੰਗੇ ਛੂਟਿ ॥੪੧॥
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Translation:
Kabir, if you have to steal, steal the Name of God,
Otherwise you will regret later, when the life is lost.
[Shri Guru Granth Sahib, Page 1366:24-25]
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Commentary:

In this verse stealing has another non-literal meaning, as per my understanding. In this life a person earns and accumulates many things, family, friends, wealth, knowledge, and all of it is lost when a person dies, lost to the dying person. Death in a way is the ultimate robber, which takes a life's earning, including material and non-material wealth, from a person. So a person cannot really take anything from this world, except the Name of God. Name of God embedded in our consciousness and memory. In this sense, when we become aware of the Name of God, its power and are devoted to the Name, we take it from this world, in a way robbing the ultimate robber, death.  

Another way to understand this verse would be to consider Death as a gatekeeper. The eternal gatekeeper, who ensures that a person leaves everything behind when a person dies. Except the Name of God, hidden deep in one's consciousness because a person cherishes and respects the Name of God. In this sense, the Name of God is the only thing that is can be robbed and is worth robbing in this life, and the eternal gatekeeper will not be able to take it away from us.

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ਜਿਹ ਮਾਰਗਿ ਇਹੁ ਜਾਤ ਇਕੇਲਾ ॥
ਤਹ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਸੰਗਿ ਹੋਤ ਸੁਹੇਲਾ ॥
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Translation:
That path where you will go alone,
There God's Name will be your friend
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[Shri Guru Granth Sahib, Page 264:18-19]
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Commentary:


This might probably be a controversial topic, but an important one. It is widely believed in popular culture, and it is also scientifically acceptable, that we come to this world without anything, and leave without anything. "Empty handed we come, and empty handed we go", is the popular saying in Hindi to convey this (i.e. "Kahli haath ayae hain, khali haath jana hai"). I believe this is correct in some aspects, but not completely accurate. 

As per my understanding, the corrected saying should be, "Whatever materialistic things we are born with, or earn during this lifetime, we leave it all behind". Basically, we are born with a body which is left behind on deathbed. We earn degrees, money, inheritance, knowledge, friends, family, big and small pleasures, and many other things during our life, and almost everything we lose after death. 

Philosophically speaking we could say, that death robs us of everything we have gained during this lifetime. Almost everything we lose, but whatever we take from this life is the topic of this article. More specifically, what is the minimum possible useful asset that we can take from this life, that will be useful and helpful to each of us. 

Not everybody starts life on equal footing. Some are born rich and healthy, others may not be born with such privileges. There is apparently some difference while being born, but this essay is not to ponder on what we brought into this world, that is already done. At the minimum we come with a life, a body, and remain here until our life is spent.

Spiritually speaking few of the intangible things that we earn during this life are knowledge and the load of unbalanced account of our actions (thoughts are actions too). Knowledge could itself be of the material world, or could be of spiritual matters. Not all action is equal, nor all knowledge is equal, and some may be useful or helpful.

While there is no limit to actions one can do, and no limit to all the knowledge one can gain. There is little knowing what action or what knowledge will have eternal value. I believe the only possible and helpful asset that one can take from this world and life is the "Name of God". 

Scriptures tell us that after death when a person moves on from this life all alone, with "nothing", no friends, helpers, family, then the Name of God would be an eternal friend, family and a helper. Afterlife would be easier if we have the Name of God as a friend, an asset. In fact, one of the purposes of human life is that we get a chance to understand this and act on this knowledge.

Following are a few questions that might come to mind:

>>How do we know that the Name of God would be helpful? I don't know. Scriptures claim this fact, and I share my understanding of scriptures, and I believe my understanding is correct. Each person has to decide for oneself.

>>Does any other scripture specify greatness of the Name of God? Yes. The Holy Bible has a verse, "Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved." [Romans 10:13]. Do not forget that the verse states "everyone" without any other qualification.

>>How do we know what is the right Name of God? As per my understanding, any Name which refers to The Supreme being is precious, and an asset. Many monotheistic religions use many different Names to refer to The Supreme Being, and the Name that one is most comfortable is OK.

>>How do we know we will remember the Name of God when it is time? This is the hard part. The hardest, maybe. There are many prerequisites, and then too it is difficult to be sure. Please note that scriptures tell us that if a person is able to remember the Name of God, even without meeting the prerequisites the person is still saved.Why?

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The power resides in the Name of God,
Not in the human discipline or actions.
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The remembrance is easier if we fulfill the prerequisites. First prerequisite is that a person has to believe, without a doubt, in an All Powerful, Supreme Creator of the world who has no equal. A belief in a limited deity is not prescribed as per my understanding. A believer needs to believe that God is able and willing to save a person. This prerequisite alone could be a labor of a lifetime for a thinking and logical person, because there is no acceptable proof of God's existence.

Second prerequisite is that the person should believe in the power of the Name of God. The difficulty here is in the simplicity of the belief. How could something be so simple? How could a word, a Name be so powerful? How could a Name save? How could something as simple as a name be so powerful? I don't know. But that is how it is. And I have my reasons to believe. I hope you find your reasons to believe. Maybe pray, think, experiment, and pray some more!

There are many reasons, and many aspects to the power of the Name of God. One of my personal reasons is, that I personally believe, that power of God manifests wherever God is remembered, whenever we call out to God. I mean we cannot force it to happen, but generally this should be the case. And easiest way to remember someone is speak the name of a person earnestly, verbally or mentally. In fact, one of the things that happens when we remember someone is that we automatically think of the name of the person. And if we hear a name, we automatically remember the person being named. So the Name of God helps us remember God.

Third and final prerequisite is that during this lifetime one plants the Name of God in one's own consciousness (or mind, or whatever we like to call it). This is done by listening, speaking, thinking and/or remembering. Listening, speaking, thinking and/or remembering can include specific tasks like reading, discussing, chanting, and doing other activities related to God and Name of God. It is difficult to fake it, and if we do not believe or respect God we will have difficultly in giving space in our mind to God's remembrance. This is the reason why we say that monotheistic spirituality is more about working with the mind and beliefs rather than rituals, i.e. accepting the truth about God enough so that we open ourselves to take help from God.

>>Is there anything more to the Name of God, or this is all? Yes, a lot more. Hopefully other articles may cover some aspects of the Name of God.

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Saturday, March 3, 2018

The one true religion!

What is the one true religion? Most will name their own. But most likely this question cannot be answered convincingly by most people. Once I have selected a religion to follow, then that becomes the only true religion for me to pursue. Others may choose other religions to pursue, which will become the only true religion for them. A person cannot travel on two boats, at least that is what I believe. Each person chooses on which boat to travel, and it will most likely be only one. Trying to travel on multiple boats may seem like a challenge, or socially polite, but I am not sure, for the waters can be deep.


I do not know the one true religion,
But I do know this,
Sun is not the only star,
Rose is not the only flower,
Lion is not the only animal,
Eagle not the only bird,
There are many cities,
There are many highways,
World is rich in choice,
But each choice has its own color,
Each choice has a consequence,
Free to choose, but own your choice,
For each choice will have a consequence,
Each choice leads to a destination,
Choose wherever you are willing to go,
There may be as many true paths, 
As many the Creator wishes to create,
To insist otherwise would be to doubt the might of the Creator,
How many I do not know for certain, for I am just a human,
I am not privy to the Creator's mind,
Nor know all the nature's secrets.


Each religion has a theology and a philosophy, which may or may not overlap with other religions. But what each religion promises is a definite or an indefinite outcome for a practitioner who wishes to follow its path. Following are some of the different things promised by different religions to their followers:

  1. A peaceful or blissful present life
  2. A peaceful or blissful afterlife
  3. Liberation from transmigration
  4. Liberation from sin
  5. Eternal companionship with God
  6. Everlasting bliss
  7. Personal deification
  8. Fame in present life or afterlife
  9. Wealth in present life or afterlife
  10. Other material pleasures in present life or afterlife
  11. More esoteric things like higher consciousness which are difficult to understand
  12. Continuation of tradition, customs, and culture
  13. Appeasement of ancestors, society, spirits, authority, gods, or other real or imaginary things
  14. And maybe many other things...
A religion would generally promise a follower some of the above goals. So a follower needs to realize that focusing on some goals alone, may make the other things out of reach. Read the promises well, what is claimed and what remains hidden.

Now whether these claims are true or false I don't know. The belief in these claims started originally with the teachings of respective founders and prophets, and it is for each person to decide what to believe in and what not to believe in, what goal to pursue and what goal to leave, what path to follow and what path to leave behind.

The important thing here is to realize that apparently there could be everlasting consequences of the personal choice made by an individual. People might claim that all religions are same, and any could be followed. But studying about the different religions will give a person a more comprehensive perspective, and a better understanding about the goals of each religion. Saying all paths are same, may generally mean the person making this claim does not have much knowledge of any of the paths involved. I do know that different religious paths may promise different destinations to their followers, and have different deities and rituals, and it is up to each person what he or she wants to pursue in life. Where does a person want to invest or spend his or her life, and what return does a person expect from this investment in a lifelong faith? Is faith for an eternal goal, or for service of others, or for being one with the crowd? Where does your faith promise to take you?

There is a secondary and equally important question, after a personal destination (religion) has been decided by the person. The secondary question is, whether the path chosen will actually lead the person to the promised destination. This is a question which can only be answered in the seeker's mind, either by simply believing the teaching of the founders of religions, or by actually traveling the path, but few are known to reach the destination.

As with most things in life, 
it is almost impossible to make a definite bet. 
This is the ultimate gamble of life. 
Where will you invest your life, on which belief? 
Believe, or some would say bet, on what,
In ephemeral pleasure, or in pleasing society, 
or maybe on mortal or eternal goals. 
Welcome to the earthy casino of life,
Wheel is spinning, and the clock is ticking,
Destiny, the croupier with a wry smile invites you,
Invites you to place your bets,
Your eternal destiny is at stake,
For the price of this one life,
For the price of a decision and a belief,
Place your bet, for time is running out,
Time will run out, bet on an eternal consequence,
A consequence which each will meet alone,
Without the company of a friend or foe,
A consequence of suffering or bliss,
Indecision will not slow down the clock,
For some this gamble can be overwhelming,
And they may look the other way,
As they try to find meaning and reason,
Believing there is no substance in eternal fate,
But time will not stop, neither for me nor for you,
The game of life is already afoot,
Try not to let your mind fool you,
But who can claim to never have been fooled.

So like everything in this world, there is endless diversity. Each religion offers a path to follow and a destination. Paths may meet at some places, and may lead to similar or different destinations. Choose the path based on where you want to go. Each path may take you where it promises to go, and hope your map is accurate.

Know where you want to go before starting a journey,
If you do not know where your faith will lead you,
You might reach a place where you do not want to be,
 If a mentor refuses to explain in simple terms,
In simple words that do not confuse nor sting,
Then perhaps you are being taken for a ride.


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Friday, August 18, 2017

Conflicting maps to the road in the afterlife? Does it matter?

Most of the Eastern religions believe in transmigration, that generally a soul undergoes continuous unending cycle of birth and death, out of which there is a way. While the religions of Mid-Eastern origin believe that after current human birth, the soul undergoes a final judgement with eternal consequence of having to live in either heaven or hell.

Once while discussing this with a friend, my friend pointed out that one of these two paths have to be correct and other incorrect (transmigration or final judgement). I disagreed, following are my reasons for the same.

Human mind requires simple straightforward theories, and complex things are generally simplified until they can be understood. Nature is complex. Founders of religions gave simple views to the nature of life and death that was enough for the disciples to understand the importance of current life, and to explain the intricacies of afterlife was not their primary goal, although they might have described some parts of it but not completely.

It is like traveling on a mountain road, and a sharp blind turn lies ahead. Different religions have put up different signposts of warning before the turn, and not all the signboards tell the same thing, but do have enough common highlights for a human mind to take notice and realize that something is coming. Following are some of the main common things written on the signposts:
  1. Death is imminent, and will follow life
  2. Our actions and choices in this life can have eternal consequences for personal soul
  3. Eternal consequences can be desirable and undesirable, based on pain or joy that will be experienced in each of the possible consequences
  4. Mortal would be well-advised to prefer a path of desirable consequences
  5. Choice rests with an individual to choose a path, and work own salvation or its contrary, whatever it might be

Now, whether the warning messages on the signposts are correct or not, I don't know. I doubt any normal human being can give evidence for the above claims except for the first, which is obvious.

But is it not important to at least realize that almost all religions we know of have a warning about what's coming after the sharp blind turn on the mountain road, of what's coming after death? The details may differ but we will come to that later, but it is important to realize that there is a common thread of warning. My point is, is it not reason enough to at least take notice and investigate further.

Coming to the differences about the message on the signposts. They primarily deal with following:
  1. Some religions say that a soul transmigrates life after life until final salvation or liberation is achieved, and other religions say soul has a final judgement after this life and experiences eternal heaven or hell based on the result of the judgement. Furthermore religions have difference of opinion on the nature of transmigration, heaven and hell.
  2. Some religions say that a person could work out his/her own salvation, while other religions say that liberation is based on grace from God, or a saint, or some other way.
Regarding the first difference, for a normal human like me and you there is no way to find out the truth until after death, and then it apparently is too late to act on the information. It is a "Catch 22" situation. But does the difference really matter that much at this point in life, it is clear that the the mountain road has a sharp turn, and then after that there may be speed-breakers or other sharp turns, or a wall, we will know when we reach there. But the warning and religious instruction is for us to slow down right now, and probably reflect our best course of action as we inevitably approach the sharp and fatal turn on the high mountain road. But if a person does think about saving for the rainy day, or investing for retirement, or buying an insurance, and other things of the future, then sparing a thought on this matter may be good and possibly useful.

But, if one really needs to know the correct answer, then I believe there is no single correct answer:

There are too many paths and too many destinations, 
When the confused mind is looking for just one.


Not all rain drops from a cloud reach the ocean, 
They might after an eternity, but eternity can be long.


Regarding the second difference, it really is a personal decision based on the teaching that a person chooses to follow, and the destination that the teaching promises, along with the risk of actual effectiveness of the teaching in fulfilling its promise. Whether the path of choosing would work, I don't know:

Each to his own choice, burden and ferry.

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Saturday, June 3, 2017

Afterlife, transmigration and other things

Most religions have a component of some afterlife experience of an individual, with possible desirable or undesirable experience based on what is done in current life. There are differences in the exact nature of the afterlife experience, but the pleasant and unpleasant component is a common thread in almost every religion.

There is not much that can be done to verify these claims, and it is more a matter belief. Each individual needs to decide for self whether to believe in it or not. It is matter of weighing the word of a prophet or a saint against the word of a contemporary individual, whom do you want to trust, whom do you see as telling the truth. For a believer the choice is obvious. There have been claims whether the prophet or saint ever existed, whether the words are really their own, whether we understand what they said, and finally whether they really were whom we believe them to be. Each person needs to decide for self on these points, and it is no small task considering the validity of words printed in newspapers today are hard to verify, especially political matters, and how much more the difficulty to verify words that were spoken or written many years ago.

But I believe pushing self to make a decision on this matter is worth it. If it is evidence of an afterlife that you are waiting for, it is unlikely to come in our lifetime. Each of us have only a lifetime to decide and place our bet with a supposed everlasting consequence. Science will continue to find new facts for centuries to come, but none of us will be here beyond maybe the present century. So in this matter science can give no practical solution in a lifetime apart from perennial indecision or skepticism. One thing that is apparent in this world is that "Ignorance does not give immunity, nor does indecision". If a person does not know that a snake is poisonous and allows himself to be bitten, he will still die. In courts of nature, ignorance or indecision is not a defense. This does look life baseless fear-mongering, and maybe it is, or maybe it is not, we can only know after this life, when it is apparently too late to change our bets. To some this may not look fair. I don't know, but that is how this game of life, literally speaking, seems to have been set up. Limits of human understanding is a topic for another post.

One way to see this would be that there does seem to be at least two differences between a dead body and living body. First is life, the movement, the animation, something like an electricity or power switch going on and then off. Second is character, the behavioral part, all that makes a person a unique person different from other people, the 'I'-ness of an individual. Another thing we can observe in this world is that Nature wastes nothing, absolutely nothing at all (or, at least I have failed to find it). Everything is recycled in Nature. Rivers are ever-flowing not because there is infinite quantity of water, but because all water is recycled. Farms give ever-flowing crops season after season, not by manufacturing new stuff but recycling soil, water and nutrients. Earth seems to have endless birth of organisms and animals, by recycling the dead bodies. Going by the same principle, if there is stuff which represents 'I'-ness of an individual, the feeling of I and me, then that too will be recycled. This could be the thing which religion calls a soul. Each organism, or animals at least, seems to have a character of its own, an 'I'-ness component to it, and we can be sure Nature is not creating it anew for each organism but reusing it from a previous one.

Coming to the point, why do we not have evidence of an afterlife, why has no one returned to tell us of a tale. How will the organism prove that it has indeed returned, without being treated as a freak or a liar, and how can the claims be verified. What if the memory is being reset so no one remembers? This comes under the category of an assumption which may remain practically unprovable in an individual's lifetime, and lies beyond the reach of science as there are no methods to objectively measure and verify it.We need to remember that an assumption may not be wrong just because it cannot be proved, but that does not mean that every unprovable assumption is true.

Coming to which religion is telling the truth, here again each individual needs to decide for self. Only thing I would say is, that a hand-written map may not be drawn to scale, may not be completely accurate, but as long as it does not make major mistakes in few key points, it can still allow the traveler to reach the destination (on the other hand, if the traveler is unable to discern the possible inaccuracy, it can cause delay and inconvenience).

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